Any mother tries to save her child from all problems, to make his childhood happy. However, very often children have conflicts in the team. And here the most important thing is not to hurry, but to fully understand the situation, to teach your baby to communicate with peers.
Should closely monitor the psychological state of the child. Pay attention to the mood in which the baby comes from kindergarten, whether he is happy to go there. If you feel that your child is experiencing discomfort in the children's team, then you need to figure out what the reason. Try to call him in a frank conversation. Often children become self-contained if they cannot find a common language with other children. The task of parents is to prevent this, otherwise the baby will feel insecure in any team. In this case, the child may even refuse to go to kindergarten.
If the baby doesn’t contact you, talk to your caregiver. After all, she could not help but notice the conflict among children. The teacher can help you in this situation.
The main causes of the conflict of the child and his peers:
1. Nefarious, "funny" last name. It is desirable that the teacher in this case had a conversation with the children that everyone has their own last name, this is the story of each person’s gender. Anyone should be proud of her, but there are no "funny" surnames. Ask your caretaker to call your baby by name only. Over time, children will forget their last name, and they will have no reason to bully a child.
2. Inability to give change. Even in the children's team, everyone strives to prove their leadership, and this happens at the expense of other weaker babies. If your child is shy, help him overcome himself, teach him to fight back. As soon as the baby shows itself strong, all such problems will be resolved. The change must be given immediately, as they say, after a fight they do not wave their fists. And this does not mean that resistance must be with the use of physical force, words can also resolve any conflict.
3. Speech therapy problems. Often in the kindergarten age children have problems with speech. This can be a cause for ridicule. Go with the child to a speech therapist, your baby will get the right speech, get rid of the complex, and the children will stop mocking him.
4. Physical defects. Explain to your child that no one in this world is perfect, and its peculiarity only indicates its uniqueness. The child must acquire self-confidence, then he will not pay attention to the attacks of other children. Some flaws can be hidden. For example, bulging ears are easily masked by a properly chosen hairstyle.
5. Overweight. Ask your pediatrician to choose your diet or consult a dietitian. Firstly, your baby will get better, and secondly, your peers will no longer have grounds for bullying.
6. Unfashionable clothes. Buy your child some new modern things. You do not have to spend a lot of money, but your baby’s mental balance will be restored.
As soon as you find that your child is being hurt in a kindergarten, it is not necessary to immediately run and punish the guilty. Find out the reason for this attitude to the baby and resolve the situation in a peaceful way. The teacher will always help you and help in resolving the conflict.
