Thu, 15 Feb 2018 Posted by Nika EtingerToday was a terrific day, just amazing. St. Valentine's Day.
I am not a supporter of sentiment, but today for some reason I want to enjoy this holiday. There are days when you do not just walk, you fly, burn and burn with your passion all who come across your path.
Today I thought, and what is love? How many pitfalls are hidden between two people? When I was 20 years old, I easily parted with people, I didn’t appreciate those who were close to me, who loved and cared for me, thought it was granted. As I got older, I revised my principles a bit. She became more tolerant of loved ones, of their tricks, outbursts of irritation and despondency.
Sometimes I think, maybe it's a fear of loneliness and I'm just spineless? And you always need to strike a balance between your emotions and the feelings of your loved one? Learning not to detonate when your man rips a grenade nearby.
I have an explosive character, I am obstinate and rebellious, but recently I realized that I can keep the evil Kraken, who escapes from her beloved from fatigue and worries, not sparing and demolishing everything in her path, forgive and not remember. I understand that when you love it is impossible, even if it hurts and offends you to release your hand and unclench your fingers. You clasp yours and his hands and wait for the storm to end, you do not give firewood and commit rash acts. But then, after the storm, how magical is an example ... Probably, sometimes even those who love need a recharge to see each other in a new way.
I don’t like the boundaries into which dates drive us. A holiday for loved ones should go from the heart any day and always be a surprise. It’s hard for many women, they are fascinated, thinking that on this day he must definitely make me happy. And men do not know how to please if pressed on them, hint that he should and must. We must learn to provoke men to actions ...
And try not to wait for gifts and surprises. Begin to fan the fire of passion and love in yourself, first for yourself, then for men. Believe me, any man who wants to give such a fiery woman gifts and attention. And rejoice at everything that surrounds you, try to sit down in the evening and find 10 happy events of your day. The brick did not fall on his head? This is already happiness!
Try to remember your emotions of joy from the event or the running pictures outside the window. The next time you fall into the same situation, you will involuntarily feel happiness and joy. And then the day of all lovers will always be in the soul, you will be in love with yourself and your life, you will light your beloved and not only yours 🙂 |
